Living in Peace
We had the privilege of a few days away in Hawkes Bay last week. Delicious sunshine, freedom camping right by the sea. Such an idyllic spot where Napier was in the distance to our left and Cape Kidnappers was closer, to our right. There is nothing quite like that wonderful rhythmic sound of the waves breaking on the shore. It is not just heard with the ears, it is felt! Its own frequency resonates with body, soul and spirit, so natural which seems to realign us. To go to sleep with that beautiful sound is priceless.
Skirting our site was the Hawkes Bay trail, so our bikes were a welcome addition. Pip, our dog, came with us and had clearly decided that she is now retired and in holiday mode, as she so contentedly rested on her bed or came for runs as we cycled, but was so chilled. Such a special time catching up with friends and family members.
Life ebbs and flows, doesn’t it? Even amid an idyllic setting, restful time set aside in a place well chosen to catch up with those we had come to see, things happen, can change or surprise us.
The lovely surprise just before we left, my son saying he would be in Hawkes Bay for a business meeting and would love to connect for lunch. The change of venue from Peak café to Hastings Hospital to join my old friend, going back to school days, as she intravenously received a bag of blood. The setting may have changed, but the time together was gold.
Getting back to the car after the hospital visit to read a text from our friend to say that her husband, our best man, had slipped into unconsciousness and the family were gathering. He has been battling pancreatic cancer, so while not unexpected, it feels too soon and the news comes with deep sadness. Keen to get back to camp and connect with my husband for the welcome hug we both needed. Followed by a visit from my husband’s daughter who called into the campsite after work and stayed the afternoon. Later, joined by her partner to enjoy a barbecue together was such a lovely way to finish the day.
Packing up the next day the weather was turning; the expected southerly was brewing. The shift in the breeze brought with it a slight chill indicating the change to come. Oh, but wow, the scenery change was spectacular! Moody skies, with billowing clouds on the horizon, capping Cape Kidnappers. It was gorgeous. The camera was clicking, a painting evolving in the heart.
Caravan in tow, a lovely connect over coffee with family before our journey home. Smiles and a sense of great joy and satisfaction at a time well spent filled us as we headed off. Then the notification that a text had arrived to tell us our friend had passed away that morning. A teary journey as we reflected on him and his life, on our wonderful times we have had together and the beautiful visits we have had more recently during his illness. May he rest in peace.
Ebbs and flows, shifts and changes happen throughout life. Sometimes it is within our family and friend circle, other times it is global. Much change going on at present.
In these times it is so important to find that place of peace regardless of the circumstances. It is in this place of faithful rest, that we find the joy and the strength for each new day and each new circumstance. “Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” John 14:27
